I am at loss with words,you are seen in movies,on TV ,in person,in novels and magazines.Many a time did women in other parts of the world feel that they have been deprived of the "special treatment" western men give their women!
The real "gentleman":
-who never fails to open the door and let the woman pass first.
-Who answers the call of a woman in distress.
-Who would lay his coat on (a mud puddle)to let a lady walk over it instead of soiling her little feet.
-Who washes the dishes and helps around the house.
All of these years ,women around the world were watching a bunch of lies,meant for the media....or for the western women themselves,so they would believe that their quest was won?
THE NEW MAN:
-Men Liberals.
-Men Activists.
-Men supporting femininsm.
-Men supporting abortion.
-Men supporting women's rights(to do what they want with their bodies).
-Men supporting women who want to be ministers in churches.
Results:
Come on guys who's wearing the pants?
YOU have come a long way!
After all these years ,neither did the women get their rights,nor are you still the man of the house,the bread-winner,the father leading his children and family to the right path.
What's going on ?Is it GUILT?
If one is guilty of something:
1)One should try to see "the reason for that guilt".
2)Then try to remove that reason.
3)Then he can do something fruitful in return.
4)The person who has endured all of the mis-haps because of the guilt could then be given her rights.
5)What are these rights?
-THE REASONS FOR THE GUILT:
Throughout history,all over the world the woman has been looked down upon by her men:
-She was the object of amusement
-she was the playmate
-the childbearer
-the reason of shame(if something were to happen to her chastity)
-the cook
-the house-cleaner
-the one men look to for comfort(mother,wife,or daughter)
THEREFORE: Nothing has changed really?
THEN CAME RELIGION:mind you religion really existed since the beginning of mankind,but as is the nature of Man,he will always dodge what's hard and go after his own ideas.
Anyway it is difficult to go that far back,so I will just take you back two thousand years ago when Moses (peace be upon him) came,then Jesus(peace be upon him),their religion was to bring people back to the TRUTH,back to the worship of "THE ONE AND ONLY"
-Something went wrong during the translation of the Bible and the Torah and some parts concerning women were compleely deformed, and so started the confusion.
-Everybody cares for his mother,men find comfort in their wives,but they are taught to look down at women,they (the women)are referred to as the "glory of man",girls bring shame and poverty to the family.
-The guilt started when women got fed up and started asking to be given respect and a little dignity,to be able to read,to be loved and cared for.
-The message given was supposed to be:
"I just need some breathing space,love and care."
The misinterpretation caused another landslide even worse than before,for you see the message received was:
"Leave me be,let me do whatever I want,and because of all the wrong done to me before,I will not be restrained!"
-REMOVING THE REASON FOR THE GUILT:
-OK says the man ,I will make it up to you.Do whatever you want and I'll be there watching over you.!
-Did the feelings inside just vanish?After all these years of disdain,did respect just come out of the blue?
-SOMETHING FRUITFUL IN RETURN:
*How about some genuine respect...how about looking at this other person(woman)in a different light:
-She is the mother who has born and bred us
-she is the wife who would do her utmost to please us(if given her true rights)
-she is the sweet daughter who would never have shamed her father(had he not looked down upon her as a curse),on the contrary,she would cause him forever to be proud of her.
-she is the sister who would stich her neck out for anyone in the family,whatever the cost.
-she is the aunt,the grandmother,grand-daughter...
-SHE is all around you,you can't live without her...and she can never feel alive without you!!
-GIVE HER THE RIGHT TO LIVE IN RESPECT AND DECENCY:
Her rights do NOT mean:
-To leave her on her own.
-To leave her unprotected.
-To let her deal with all her problems alone.
-To let her dress immodestly.
-To let her have free sex.
-To live with her without marriage(and thus SHE loses all of her rights)
-To make her the object of amusement.
-To let her choose her mate,even if it were another woman.
-To leave the worship of The Almighty.
-To let her go to where no woman has ever gone before(any job,even if she's not cut for it.
-These are some,but I will let you think.
-THE RIGHTS:
-Respect
-Education
-Care as needed and when needed
-Unconditional love
-Guidance
WHAT ABOUT YOUR RIGHTS?
You have the right NOT to remain silent,for you are the man ,no matter what.
-You have the right to have your say in your household.
-You have the right to administer your paternal duties.
-Remember always that you are the leader.
WHOEVER HEARD OF:
-a state with two presidents?
-a ship with two captains?
-a military with two Joint-Chiefs-of-Staff?
**RESULTS OF THE WOMEN LIBERATION MOVEMENT:
When the rights were given,they were not really given from the heart.
When the rights were taken,they were taken FORCIBLY without security measures.
1)Women went into a phase where nothing can stop them.
2)Girls think they have the right to do anything.
3)Boys don't know who's the man around the house so some of them succumb to being some other gender (unknown).
4)Men,well that's another story altogether:
-Some don't like it,so they have these strange organisations
-Some just stay around ,just in case
-Somewent back to religion looking for solutions or for comfort(which religion)?
-OTHERS HELP IN ANYTHING THAT WOMEN DEMAND BECAUSE OF THE GUILT!!!!
